Feel closer, one small habit at a time
Stronger Couple helps couples feel closer through small, steady habits. The free library on this site explains what is happening between you, using research on communication, conflict and connection. The iPhone app is where you practice together, with weekly check-ins, appreciations, prompts and a calm way to work through disagreements. It is a practice tool, not therapy.
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- How are you, really?
- Notice the good
- What needs care?
- Looking ahead
You each answer, then talk about what came up.
What Stronger Couple helps with
Learn what is happening
Plain-language guides on conflict, connection and trust, with sources you can check.
Practice one small thing
A short weekly check-in and a daily note of thanks build closeness without a big time commitment.
Disagree more calmly
A guided conflict flow with a speaking timer helps each person feel heard.
How it works
Download the app
Create an account with your email or Sign in with Apple.
Check in on your own
Work through four short steps about your week. You can start solo.
Invite your partner
Share an invite code when you are both ready to link accounts.
Keep the habit going
Check in weekly and look back at your insights over time.
Start here, for free
Free library
Guides, a relationship glossary, prompt collections and exercises.
Free tools
A conflict pause timer, quizzes and idea generators that run in your browser.
Need help now?
Crisis and domestic violence resources, available 24/7.
Guides to begin with
- Appreciation and Connection: The Complete Guide
How small moments of appreciation, responsiveness and gratitude build closeness, what research shows, and simple daily habits couples can start tonight.
- Communication and Conflict: The Complete Guide
How couples can argue less destructively and talk so both feel heard: the research on conflict, the patterns to watch for, and skills to practise.
- Conversation Questions for Couples: The Complete Guide
Why good questions bring couples closer, how to ask them without pressure, and question lists for every mood, from playful to deep to hard seasons.
- Date Nights: The Complete Guide for Couples
Why couple time matters, what research says about novelty, and how to plan date nights that actually bring you closer, at home, on a budget or with kids.
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